出自《洛丽塔》。
用英文如下。
There are three things that cannot be concealed, coughing, poverty and love, the more you want to hide. There are three things that people should not spend freely. Body, money and love, you want to squander, but it is not worth the candle. There are three things that can't be retained, time, life and love, but you want to keep it away. There are three things that human beings should not recall. Disasters, deaths and love are painful.
《洛丽塔》（Lolita），又译为《洛莉塔》，《洛丽泰》，《罗莉泰》，是俄裔美国作家弗拉基米尔·纳博科夫创作的长篇小说。
该作绝大部分篇幅是死囚亨伯特的自白，叙述了一个中年男子与一个未成年少女的恋爱故事。小说最初未获准在美国发行，于1955年首次被欧洲巴黎奥林匹亚出版社出版。1958年终于出版了美国版，作品一路蹿升到《纽约时报》畅销书单的第一位。《洛丽塔》已被改编成电影。