As a result of adaptation problems, relationship problems, it is more common for students, especially the bedroom relationships. As between the different living habits and mutual misunderstandings, resulting in students living in the community feel particularly uncomfortable. Some students are very distressed by isolation roommate: "I do not know why, maybe I do not pay attention to his manner of speaking. I felt we started talking to me sarcastically; Which if I do not intend to say the students, everyone together to help her. I feel very depressed, think back to the dorm does not mean fear of wrong things cause more trouble. So get up very early every day, carrying bags to the classroom to read, dormitory late at night, sometimes Even if not look, do not want to dorm to stroll down the playground, around and around, it is estimated only about a dormitory lights. "antithesis of those students are living in sad:" We are a student dormitory too, but she has now been isolated, but now I feel very depressed, because the atmosphere is not good quarters, the formation of confrontation. In fact, I think students who are not useless, but also want to speak to her, but we do not ignore her, if I take the initiative and she is good, as is bound to have caused the results are not ignored by everyone. "There are some students, even without this, also felt in the quarters is not very happy:" We are between quarters can and no arguments, but we are very polite, no words to say, I feel very boring. "This may be new problems are likely to encounter. How to deal with this problem, straighten out the relationship between the students with the hostel it?
First, we must address this problem, look for the problems themselves and the impact on interpersonal relationships quarters. Their living habits, such as whether the inconvenience to others? The adequacy of their words and deeds? If nothing wrong with it, you can adjust your habits; change their way of speaking to other people accept and understand manner.
Second, for more communication and more communication. Do not avoid because we have misunderstood the exchange and communication, and should take the initiative to communicate with everyone involved in our discussions and activities. The only way to better understand themselves and others, to eliminate misunderstanding between them, to strengthen mutual understanding and trust.
Third, broad-minded and more understanding and tolerant of others. Students should be a new era of the Sea,
more than absorb other people's advantage; the shortcomings of others, should be more understanding and tolerance. Normal life for some trivial disputes arise, do not be too heart, the forgotten of the forgotten, the forgiveness forgiveness, reconciliation, the reconciliation, do not be too heart. The so-called "big smart, stupid little things", the limited energy to do the main things, for example, do a good job for their own learning.
Again, be true to others. As the saying goes: "All things are difficult reap." Only seeding sincere, true to self, others will be harvested in good faith. Because people unconscious in compliance with "interpersonal reciprocity" principle, you bare the extent of good faith will be rewarded. Some people are afraid to see their own shortcomings by others will affect your heart in someone else's image. Psychological research shows that: people do not like to be perfect in all aspects of a person, but rather is an outstanding performance in all aspects and there are some small drawback of the most popular. So you do not care too much about their own shortcomings, this point should have enough confidence.
Finally, from the heart to praise others. Learn to appreciate and praise others, to at least make people feel comfortable to say the words, such as: "You're great!" You're hair looks good! "The words of praise like Yang who will be fun, and cause a positive emotional response. Emotions are contagious, that will be transmitted to the people around to bring happiness all around." Happiness ", it will melt interpersonal impasse, so the bedroom becomes a harmonious relationship.
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