求翻译成中文，急需。在线等。满意给100分。

Question

如题所述

Answer 1

爸爸:
给你一些建议如下：
从伤害你的人手中夺取控制权。心里总是想着自己的伤痛赋予给你带来痛苦的人权力。
罗斯金说：「与其老是关注自己受伤的感情，学会寻找爱、美和你周围的善。」要将身比己，如果你觉得受伤害，其他人也可能觉得受伤害。
最快乐的人不一定拥有最好的一切，他们只是让身边的一切都随缘。
那些哭的，那些受伤害的，那些会搜查的，和那些尝试的人，他们都可以快乐，因为只有他们懂得珍惜触动他们生活的人的重要性。爱情从微笑开始，由亲吻转浓，在泪水中结束。最光明的未来总是基于被遗忘的过去。直到你放开你过去的失败和悲痛，你才能好好地生活。
你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人都在微笑。活出你的彩，这样，当你死的时候，就只有你在微笑，你周围的人在哭。
往昔已逝，静如止水；我们无法再作改变。而前方的未来正生机勃勃；我们所做的每一件事都将会影响着它。只要我们认识到这些，无论是在家中还是在工作上，每天我们的面前都会展现出新的天地。在人类致力开拓的每一片领域上，我们正站在进步的起跑点。

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原文如下：

Dad,
Give you some suggestions as follows:
Take the control away from you offender. Mentally replaying your hurt gives power to the person who caused you pain.
"Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you," Luskin says. Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
The past is gone and static. Nothing we can do will change it. The future is before us and dynamic. Everything we do will affect it. Each day brings with it new frontiers, in our homes and in our business, if we only recognize them. We are just at the beginning of the progress in every field of human endeavor.

Answer 2

给你如下建议....

Answer 3

就看清楚一个爹啊。。

Answer 4

有些看不清追问

个别单词看不清，比较简单。你能翻译吗