第1个回答 2008-12-06
一个朋友,嵌在一个人的心天中,如同星座在青空中一样,
某一颗星陨落了,就不能去移另一颗星来填满她的位置!
我的心天中,本来星辰就十分稀少,失落了一颗大星,怎
能使我不觉得空虚,惆怅?
我把朋友分为三类。第一类是有趣的,这类朋友,多半是
很渊博,很隽永,纵谈起来乐而忘倦。月夕花晨,山颠水畔,
他们常常是最赏心的伴侣。第二类是有才的,这类朋友,多半
是才气纵横,或有奇癖,或不修边幅,尽管有许多地方,你的
意见不能和他一致,面对于他精警的见解,迅疾的才具,常常
会不能自已的心折。第三类是有情的,这类朋友,多半是静默
冲和,温柔敦厚,在一起的时候,使人温暖,不见的时候,使
人想念。尤其是在疾病困苦的时光,你会渴望着他的“同在”
——王世瑛女士在我的朋友中,是属于有情的一类!
这并不是说世瑛是个无趣无才的人,世瑛趣有余而才非浅,
不过她的“趣”和“才”都被她的“情”盖过了,淹没了。
世瑛和我,算起来有三十余年的交谊了,民国元年的秋天,
我在福州,入了女子师范预科,那时我只十一岁,世瑛在本科
三年级,她比我也只大三四岁光景。她在一班中年纪最小,梳
辫子,穿裙子,平底鞋上还系着鞋带,十分的憨嬉活泼。因为
她年纪小,就常常喜欢同低班的同学玩。她很喜欢我,我那时
从海边初到城市,对一切都陌生畏怯,而且因为她是大学生,
就有一点不大敢招揽,虽然我心里也很喜欢她。我们真正友谊
的开始,还是“五四”那年同在北平就学的时代。
那年她在北平女高师就学,我也在北平燕京大学上课,相
隔八九年之中,因着学校环境之不同,我们相互竟不知消息。
直到五四运动掀起以后,女学界联合会,在青年会演剧筹款,
各个学校单位都在青年会演习。我忘了女高师演的是什么,我
们演的是莎士比亚的《威尼斯商人》。预演之夕,在二三幕之
间,我独自走到楼上去,坐在黑暗里,凭阑下视,忽然听见后
面有轻轻的脚步,一只温暖的手,按着我的肩膀,我回头一看,
一个温柔的笑脸,问:“你是谢婉莹不是?你还记得王世瑛么?”
昏忙中我请她坐在我的旁边,黑暗的楼上,只有我们两个
人,我们都注目台上,而谈话却不断的继续着。她告诉我当我
在台上的时候,她就觉着面熟了,她向燕大的同学打听,证实
了我是她童年的同学,一闭幕她就走到后台,从后台又跟到楼
上……她笑了,说这相逢多么有趣!她问我燕大读书环境如何,
又问“冰心是否就是你?”那时我对本校的同学,还没有公开
的承认,对她却只好点了点头。三幕开始,我们就匆匆下去,
从那时起,我们就成了最密的朋友。
那时我家住在北平东城中剪子巷,她住在西城砖塔胡同,
北平城大,从东城到西城,坐洋车一走就是半天,大家都忙,
见面的时候就很少。然而我们却常常通信,一星期可以有两三
封。那时正是“五四”之役,大家都忙着讨论问题,一切事物,
在重新估定价值的时候,问题和意见,就非常之多,我们在信
里总感觉得说不完,因此在彼此放学回家之后,还常常通电话,
一说就是一两个钟头。我们的意见,自然不尽相同,而我们却
都能容纳对方的意见。等到后来,我们通信的内容,渐渐轻松,
电话里也常常是清闲的谈笑,有时她还叫我从电话中弹琴给她
听,我的父亲母亲常常跟我开玩笑,说他们从来没有看见我同
人家这样要好过,父亲还笑说,“你们以后打电话的时间要缩
短一些,我的电话常常被你们阻断了!”
我在学校里对谁都好,同学们也都对我好,因而也没有什
么特别的“朋友”。世瑛就很热情,除了同谁都好之外,她在
同班中还特别要好的三位朋友,那就是黄瑛(庐隐),陈定秀,
和程俊英,连她自己被同学称为四君子。文采风流,出入相共,
……庐隐在她的小说《海滨故人》里,把她们的交谊,说得很
详细——世瑛在四君子之中,是最稳静温和的,而世瑛还常常
说我“冷”,说我交朋友的作风,和别人不一样。我常常向她
分辩,说我并不是冷,不过各人情感的训练不同,表示不同,
我告诉她我军人的家庭,童年的环境,她感着很大的兴趣……
然而我们并不是永远不见面。中央公园和北海在我们两家
的中途,春秋假日,或是暑假里,我们常带着弟妹们去游赏——
我们各有三个弟弟,她比我还多两个妹妹——小孩子奔走跳跃
的时候,我们就坐在水榭或漪澜堂的阑旁,看水谈心。她砖塔
胡同的家,外院有个假山,我们中剪子巷的门口大院里,也圈
有一处花畦,有石凳秋千架等,假山和花畦之间,都是我们同
游携手之地。我们往来的过访,至多半日,她多半是午饭后才
来,黄昏回去,夏天有时就延至夜中。我们最欢喜在星夜深谈,
写到这里,还想起一件故事:她在学生会刊物上写稿子,用的
笔名是“一息”,我说“一息”这两字太衰飒,她就叫我替她
取一个,我就拟了“一星”送她,我生平最爱星星,因集王次
回的“明明可爱人如月”,和黄仲则的“一星如月看多时”两
句诗,颂赞她是一个可爱的朋友,她欣然接受了。直至民国十
二年我出国时为止,我们就这样谈而永的往来着。我比较冷静,
她比较温柔,因此从来没有激烈的辩论,或吵过架,我们两家
的人,都称我们“两小无猜”,算起来在朋友中,我同她谈的
话最多,最彻底,通信的数量也最多(四五年之间,已在数百
封以上),那几年是我们过往最密的时代,有多少最甜柔的故
事,想起来使我非常的动心,留恋!
我出国去,她原定在北平东车站送行,因为那天早晨要替
我赶完一件绒衣,到了车站,火车已经开走了,她十分惆怅,
过几天她又赶到上海来送我上船。我感谢之余,还同她说,“假
如我是你,送过一次也罢了,何必还赶这一场伤心的离别?”
她泫然说,“就因为我不是你,我有我的想法!”——庐隐有
一首新诗,就记的是这件事,我只记得中间四句,是:
辛苦织成的绒衣,
竟赶不上做别离的赠品,
秋风阵阵价紧,
不嫌衣裳太薄吗?
在上海我们又盘桓了几天。动身之日,我早同她约定,她
送我上船就走,不要看着船开,但她不能履行这珍重的诺言,
船开出好远,她还呆立在码头上……
到美国以后,功课一忙,路途又远,我们通信的密度,就
比从前差远了,我只知道从上海,她就回到福州去教书。在十
三年的春天,我在美国青山养病,忽然得到她的一封信,信末
提到张君劢先生向她求婚,问我这结合可不可以考虑,文句虽
然是轻描淡写,而语意是相当的恳切。我和君劢先生素不相识,
而他的哲学和政治的文章,是早巳读过,世瑛既然问到我,这
就表示她和她家庭方面,是没有问题的了,我即刻在床上回了
一封信,竭力促成这件事,并请她告诉我以嘉礼的日期。那年
的秋天,我就接到他们结婚的请柬,我记得我寄回去的礼物,
是一只镶着桔红色宝石的手镯。
民国十五年秋天,我回国来,一到上海,就去访他们夫妇,
那时他们的大孩子小虎诞生不久,世瑛在床上,君劢先生赶忙
下楼来接我,一见面就如同多年的熟朋友一样,极高兴恳切的
握着我的手。上得楼来,做了母亲的世瑛,乍看见我似乎有点
羞怯,但立刻就被喜悦和兴奋盖过了。我在她床沿杂乱的说了
半小时的话,怕她累着,就告辞了出来。在我北上以前,还见
了好几次,从他们的谈话中,态度上都看出他们是很理想的和
谐的伴侣。在我同他们个别谈话的时候,我还珍重的向他们各
个人道贺,为他们祝福。
民国十六年以后,我的父亲在上海做事,全家都搬到上海
来。年假暑假我回家的时候,总是常到他们家里,世瑛又做了
两个,三个孩子的母亲,她的敦厚温柔,更是有增无减,同时
她对于君劢先生的文章事业,都感着极大的兴趣,尽力帮忙。
我在一旁看着,觉得我对于世瑛的敬爱,也是有增无减!她在
家是个好女儿,好姐姐,在校是个好学生,好教师,好朋友,
出嫁是个好妻子,好母亲,这种人格,是需要相当的忍耐和不
断的努力,她以永恒的天真和诚恳,温柔和坦白来与她的环境
周旋,她永远是她周围的人的慰安和灵感!
民国廿年母亲去世以后,父亲又搬回北平来,我和世瑛见
面的机会便少了。民国廿三年他们从德国回来,君劢先生到燕
大来教书,我们住得很近,又温起当年的友谊。君劢先生和文
藻都是书虫子,他们谈起书来,就到半夜,我和世瑛因此更常
在一起。北平西郊的风景又美,春秋佳日,正多赏心乐事,那
一两年我们同住的光阴,似乎比以前更深刻纯化了。
他们先离开了北平到了上海,我们在抗战以后也到了昆明,
中间分别了六七年,各居一地,因着生活的紧张忙乱,在表面
上,我们是疏远了。直到了前年,我们又在重庆见面,喜欢得
几乎落下泪来,她握着我的手,说她听人说我总是生病,但出
乎意外的我并不显得憔悴。我微笑了,我知道她的用心,她是
在安慰我!我谢了她,我说,“抗战期间,大家都老了都瘦了,
这是正常的表现,能不死就算好了。”她拦住我,说,“你总
是爱说死字……”我一笑也就收住——谁知道她一个无病的人,
倒先死了呢!
她住在汪山,我住在歌乐山,要相见就得渡一条江,翻一
座岭,战时的交通,比什么都困难,弄到每年我们才能见到一
两次面。她告诉我汪山有绿梅花。花时不可不来一赏,这约订
了三年,也没有实现——我想我永不会到汪山去看梅花了,世
瑛去了,就让我永远纪念这一个缺憾罢。
我们在重庆仅有的一次通讯。是她先给我写的,去年五月
一日,她到歌乐山来参加第一保育院的落成典礼,没有碰到我,
她“怅惘而归”,在重庆给我写了几行:
冰姐:
到重庆后,第一次去歌乐山……因为他们告诉我,你
也许会来参加保育院的落成典礼……我可以告诉你,我在山上
等你好久了……我念旧之情,与日俱深——也许是年龄的关系,
使我常常忆旧——可是今天的事实,到了保育院,既未见你,
而时间的限制,又无法去看你,惆怅而归,老八又告诉我,你
身体不大好,使我更懊悔我错过了机会,不抽一刻时间来看你!
我在山上几次动笔写信给你,终于未寄,今天无论如何,要写
这几个字给你,或不是你所想得到的,我是怎样今情犹昔!
Among a friend , the heart sky embedding in one people, the midair is the same like the constellation in green grass, Some star have fallen from the sky , have gone to change another the location coming to feed her to the full the star Jiu Bu Neng ! Stars has been originally right away very rare , a big stars , how to have lost in my heart sky, Can make me not feel void , disconsolate? I divide the friend into three kinds. The first kind is amusing , this kind of friend , the greater part are Very much, erudite , very much, meaningful , talk music freely but forget tired. The evening of the moon and the morning of the flowers , mountain top water side, They often are the riantest companions. The second kind is to have talent's , this kind of friend , the greater part Be that literary talent runs quickly with great ease, or have strange addiction, or have a lot of place , your not to assume a specious demeanor , always The idea can not coincide with him , face in his extremely alert view , swift talent, often Will be unable certainly already filled with admiration. That third resembles is to have feeling's , this kind of friend , the greater part are to become silent Towards making person warm when , together with gentle and kind , when disappearing,make Person is missed. Especially the days in disease hardship,you may "coexist " being longing for him Be to belong to one kind having feeling-- in the Mrs. Wang Shi Ying friend in me! That this is really not to say the world beautiful jade is the person who there is no interest there being no talent , world beautiful jade interest is odd but only mistake is shallow, However her "interest" and "talent" have excelled , have been drowned by her "feeling". World beautiful jade and I, have finally risen to friendship having over thirty years, Republic fall the first year of an era, I have entered the woman normal school preparatory course in Fuzhou,at that time my god of the earth eleven-year-old, the world beautiful jade is in regular college course Three grades , her conditions also only big about 3-year-old than me. She minimal , combs in one class of middle age Mistake or shortcoming that may be exploited by an opponent, is penetrating skirt , is tying a shoelace on walking shoes, very naive plays lively. Because Schoolmate of young , right away often like it and low shift plays with her age. She is fond of our , our very much at that time From the beginning of the seaside to city, face to face all strange timid, because of and she is a college student, Drum up right away a little bit not very often be bold, though I am fond of her in the heart also very much. Our real friendship That year coexist Peking go to school times beginning , being still "May 4th". She learns from that year in Peking daughter height going to school , I give lessons , look at and appraise also in Peking Yan Jing university Block of wood of school environment is the same as in being separated by 8 years, because of being burning, we are not aware of information mutually unexpectedly. Until raise a hereafter , female educational circles of the May 4th Movement federation, drama raises funds in youth joint performance, The school unit manoeuver one by one all in Young Men's Christian Association. What , me that I have forgot that daughter height division performs is Performing is Shakespearean "Merchant of Venice ". Preview the performance of that night , be in an about 2 act that Room , I go up to go to a building alone , sit to hear the day afer tomorrow let door screen look at time , suddenly within dark, Have light step face to face, warm one hand, according to my shoulder , I glance over the shoulder, A mild smiling face, asks about: Are "you Xie Wan Ying fault? Do you keep Wang Shi Ying in memory? I ask her to sit in my side , Cimmerian upstairs in the dusk being bustling about , only have us two Person , we are all fixing eyes on stage , are talking but continuing ceaselessly but. She tells me to serve as me During the period of stage, she has been moving towards sleep looking familiar , she has been asking important schoolmate of swallow about , confirming I am her childhood schoolmate , she will go to background one falling of the curtain, secondary follow on the backstage to the building Go ahead, ... What amusing that she has laughed at , have criticized this meeting by chance be! She reads a book greatly from my swallow environment how, Ask that "if Bing Xin are you "? I am not known to the public at that time to our school schoolmate, Admit that, be forced to nod but to her. The three act begins , we get down right away in a hurry, From getting up at that time,we have become the densest friend right away. My family lives in scissors alleys at that time in Peking eastern part of the city , she lives in the western part of the city brick tower alleyway, Peking City is big , arrive at the western part of the city from the eastern part of the city, take a rickshaw to be that half day , everybody are all busy as soon as walking, When meeting move towards very few. Often communicate by letter but we , a week can have two three . Battle of exactly being "May 4th" at that time, everybody discusses problem , all object being bustling about, In , problem and idea that assessment value again,right away extremely much, we are believing Always feeling that such that speaking li not being over , often communicate by phone therefore after each other leave school going home, Be one two hours in one try of speaking. Our idea, is at ease be unable completely identical, but we but Can accommodate the other party's idea. The content waiting until we communicate by letter afterwards,is gradually relaxed, Be that the idle talk laughs at also often in telephone, she lets me give her from playing piano in telephone sometimes My father mother often jokes can, with me , criticizes them not seeing that I am same all along Such asks a household to feel well , father laughs at said "you the time calling hereafter needs to shrink Short few , my telephone are often hindered from having broken by you"! Whom I am in school lining all well to , schoolmates are also all kind with me , neither have ten as a result Special "friend". The world beautiful jade is right away very fervent, except whom she is around besides all good with, To be close friends especially three middle places in the same class friends, are Huang Ying (the cottage hides) , Chen Ding Xiu , And, Cheng Jun Ying , is called four gentlemen including herself by the schoolmate. The literary talent is dissolute , discrepancy looks at and appraises together, ... ... The cottage hides friendship holding them li in her novel "seashore old friend ", speaks very much The detailed-- world beautiful jade is in four gentlemen among, be stabilize most quiet mild, but world beautiful jade often Style, and other people criticizing me "cooling down" , criticizing me making friends are different. I often face her Offering an explanation , criticizing me is really not cold , the emotion training is unlike only each person , expresses diversity, I am informing her of my soldier's family , the childhood environment , she is feeling very big interest, ... But, we are really not to will never meet. Central authority park and the North Sea are in our two family Halfway , year we often go to travel an award with sisters-in-law in the holiday, or summer holidays,-- We have three younger brothers respectively , she leaps than my fairly many two younger sisters-- children rush about When , we look at water by the side of the door screen sitting in self's seat in the waterside pavilion or the ripple hall, having a heart-to-heart talk. Her brick tower Alleyway family , basecourt have a rockery , scissors also enclose in us in the alley entrance compound, Have one place of platband , have stone bench swing to wait , being that we are same between the rockery and platband, Loaf about hand in hand that field. Our intercourse visiting, till the greater part Japan, after her greater part is lunch just now Come, the dusk goes back , is postponed till night middle right away in summer sometimes. We are delighted most on starry night
第2个回答 2008-11-29
《养花》 (老舍)
我爱花,所以也爱养花。我可还没成为养花专家,因为没有工夫去作研究与试验。我只把养花当作生活中的一种乐趣,花开得大小好坏都不计较,只要开花,我就高兴。在我的小院中,到夏天,满是花草,小猫儿们只好上房去玩耍,地上没有它们的运动场。
花虽多,但无奇花异草。珍贵的花草不易养活,看着一棵好花生病欲死是件难过的事。我不愿时时落泪。北京的气候,对养花来说,不算很好。冬天冷,春天多风,夏天不是干旱就是大雨倾盆;秋天最好,可是忽然会闹霜冻。在这种气候里,想把南方的好花养活,我还没有那么大的本事。因此,我只养些好种易活、自己会奋斗的花草。
不过,尽管花草自己会奋斗,我若置之不理,任其自生自灭,它们多数还是会死了的。我得天天照管它们,象好朋友似的关切它们。一来二去,我摸着一些门道:有的喜阴,就别放在太阳地里,有的喜干,就别多浇水。这是个乐趣,摸住门道,花草养活了,而且三年五载老活着、开花,多么有意思呀!不是乱吹,这就是知识呀!多得些知识,一定不是坏事。
我不是有腿病吗,不但不利于行,也不利于久坐。我不知道花草们受我的照顾,感谢我不感谢;我可得感谢它们。在我工作的时候,我总是写了几十个字,就到院中去看看,浇浇这棵,搬搬那盆,然后回到屋中再写一点,然后再出去,如此循环,把脑力劳动与体力劳动结合到一起,有益身心,胜于吃药。要是赶上狂风暴雨或天气突变哪,就得全家动员,抢救花草,十分紧张。几百盆花,都要很快地抢到屋里去,使人腰酸腿疼,热汗直流。第二天,天气好转,又得把花儿都搬出去,就又一次腰酸腿疼,热汗直流。可是,这多么有意思呀!不劳动,连棵花儿也养不活,这难道不是真理么?
送牛奶的同志,进门就夸“好香”!这使我们全家都感到骄傲。赶到昙花开放的时候,约几位朋友来看看,更有秉烛夜游的神气——昙花总在夜里放蕊。花儿分根了,一棵分为数棵,就赠给朋友们一些;看着友人拿走自己的劳动果实,心里自然特别喜欢。
当然,也有伤心的时候,今年夏天就有这么一回。三百株菊秧还在地上(没到移入盆中的时候),下了暴雨。邻家的墙倒了下来,菊秧被砸死者约三十多种,一百多棵!全家都几天没有笑容!
有喜有忧,有笑有泪,有花有实,有香有色,既须劳动,又长见识,这就是养花的乐趣。
"Plant flowers"
I love flowers, so plant flowers in love. I can not plant flowers become experts, because there is no effort to study and experiment. I only plant flowers in life as a fun, flowers do not have to care about the size of the good or bad, as long as the flower, I happy. In my little house in the summer, full of flowers, small cat who had to play to Shang Fang, they are not on the floor of the stadium.
Although the flower, but no plants. Rare plants is not easy to feed, a good looking sick Yusi flower is a sad thing. I do not want to cry from time to time. Beijing's climate, plant flowers, is not very good. In the winter cold, windy spring and summer drought is not a heavy rain poured down; the best in the fall, but will make all of a sudden frost. In such a climate, the South would like to spend a good feed, I do not have such a great talent. Therefore, I support some kind of easy to live well, they will fight the plants.
However, despite their plants will struggle, if I ignored their own devices, most of them will die of. I have to care for them every day, as good friends as if they are concerned about. A second to go, I felt some of the Road: Some hi Yam, on the other to the sun, some do-hi, do more watering. This is a fun touch Road live, feed plants, and five years old alive, flowering, how interesting it! Luanchui not, this is the knowledge you! Some have more knowledge, not necessarily a bad thing.
I do not have a leg disease, not only detrimental to the line, is not conducive to sedentary. I do not know their flowers by my care, for I do not thank; I have to thank them. In my work, I always write a few dozen words, to the hospital to see how the water poured, to move Napen move, and then back to the house to write in, and then go out, so the cycle, The combination of physical and mental work together, healthy, is better than medicine. If weather or heavy rain and strong wind to catch up with mutations which, you'll have to mobilize the whole family, to save plants, very tense. Hundreds of potted plant, must quickly go to the house to grab people back leg pain acid, Rehan DC. The next day, the weather improved, and flowers all have to move out, and again on the back leg pain acid, Rehan DC. However, how interesting it! Does not work, even the trees are the flowers do not support live, is that really the truth is not it?
Milk delivery of comrades on the door boast "Hong good!" We are proud of the whole family. Epiphyllum arrived at the opening, a few friends take a look at some more Bingzhu the night air - Epiphyllum night put the total at the core. Flowers at the root, divided into a number of trees, presented a number of friends; friends looked away the fruits of their labor, like the natural heart.
Of course, there are sad, this summer, so there is a return. 300-Ju Yang still on the ground (not into the basin of the time), under a heavy rain. Neighbor's wall fell down, Yang Ju smashed more than 30 kinds of some of the deceased, more than 100 trees! A few days did not have the whole family smile!
Mixed, with laughter and tears, flowers are real, colored incense, and both have to work, and long experience, which is plant flowers in the fun.