(1)Today, the relationship between parents and children is very nervous, parents are our first teachers, they gave us all the love, we love them, but sometimes parents don't understand us, they will be very strict to us, for example, we study very hard, but we didn't get good grades, they will that we are not working hard enough, they will criticize us, so we will be very angry, we will quarrel with my parents, I think a conversation with parents is very important. If we do so, we will understand the parents, of course, parents will understand us, we will be together and parents to solve the problem, the relationship between us and the parents will be getting better and better.
(2)The ideal relationship between parents and children As the saying gose, parents are friends as well as teachers of their children. Friendship is full of equality, love and respect. And this is the basic condition for other relations.Children have their own life and mind space. In some areas of social activity, children want to make up their minds,express their views and show their talents.At that time , their desire is equality and respect like understanding and help their friends give.And parents become the most intimate and friendly friends. Many children may feel lonely and self-esteem if they are lack of friendship and understanding like this.It is sincere and lasting that the emotion is built up in the nature. With the friendship, the happiness and sorrow of the children will not be homeless.There will not be too many children that lost their way home and go astray. Children’s mind needs the friendship to repair. But what can we to realize this ideal relationship? As parents, more appropriate ways to educate the children is to learn to listen and communicate, rather than one-man-like education methods.After all, equality is an important condition for the healthy growth of children. As children, Instead of a big quarrel ,we can stand their points of view to consider the issue, it will not happen one-sidedness, of course, you can use the other side to accept the ways and means to solve the problem. It is necessary for parents and children to make a friendship from time to time so that the gap between parents and children will be narrowed. Too much love and affection is a spoiled, is the child's injury rather than true love. The phrase "used to kill the child, such as child", these words right. Spoiled, will give a wrong message to children: he is a wonderful thing most people turn everything around him. Such children will not love others, do not love their parents, he did everything that parents should be copies. As a children,when we have conflict with our parents, we should be to the empathy and mutual understanding, should not make our parents sad to the performance because they are the people who bore and support us, their actions are for us. We, the children, should treasure the relationship, do not regret that "son wants to be,but parents had gone" all life.
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