VERNON BOGGS, A PERSONAL HERO
EDITORS NOTE: We received a lot of mail responding to our memorial of Dr. Vernon Boggs (Descarga Newsletter #17). This letter seems to speak for all who wrote in.
Dear All Of Vernon Bogg's Friends, Hi!
My name is Sarah Streng. I live in Albuquerque, New Mexico and I wanted to write you a letter about how much Vernon meant to me. I only met him once in person but I talked to him on the phone before I met him and corresponded with him by mail after meeting him. Over the past two years Vernon has become one of my personal heroes.
I first learned of Vernon Boggs at the beginning of 1993 as a senior in college. I was writing my honors thesis on multiculturalism/cultural crossing in the arts and Salsa. I saw Vernon's name under the heading salsiology in a Latin Beat magazine. After ordering and reading his book, I decided to call him up for some help with my research. We ended up talking on the phone a lot. He told me about some of his salsa theories and also about the New York scene, his trips to Cuba, and a bit about his life. He really helped me out with my paper And he really inspired me.
Last January I was in Boston for a relative's wedding. Before my trip I decided I would also go to New York to meet Vernon, a personal hero.
Anyhow I called Vernon while I was in New York and we had a great time. He took me to a restaurant called Taza de Oro where we ate lots of pasteles and tostones and arroz and habichuelas. Then we went to the Club Zanzibar to listen to African music.
Vernon was great. Since salsa was what had brought us together, that's where I thought most of our conversation would go. We talked about the music, the dance, and where I should go dance while I was in the Big Apple. But we also talked about our dreams, our families, the paths of our lives, and our loves. What made me feel so inspired by and connected to Vernon was his beautiful spirit and love of humanness which he shared with me - and I imagine he shared this with everyone whose life he touched. He was so warm and passionate about life and people.
Before we left the Zanzibar that night Vernon thanked me for being his "fan" and handed me a bagful of music - mostly Swedish salsa. I now listen to the music he gave me all the time and think of him.
I will never forget saying goodbye to him that snowy night. He seemed sad to part and said "Bye, fan" with a big hug when a taxi pulled over to take me home.
After I left New York, Vernon and I corresponded by mail. He is a wonderful letter writer. I was going through a difficult time in my life this summer. Vernon wrote me the most thoughtful and loving letter I have ever received. I slept with his letter under my pillow for three weeks.
At the end of last week I was coming home from a work trip in Southern New Mexico (I interview women all over the state for a research project about breast cancer). On my way home I started talking to Vernon out loud. He listens.
When I got home my latest issue of Descarga had arrived and this is how I learned of Vernon's death. I feel such a loss.
But I am writing to tell you that I love Vernon and he has been so inspirational to me. I am so glad that he is a part of my life. Last Friday I dedicated part of the salsa show (it's aired on Friday nights here) to Vernon with some music by Joe Cuba. There are others in New Mexico who will miss him too.
I am going to frame the picture that Vernon sent me of himself and Tito Puente to put over my bed.
Vernon lives on in my heart and my spirit. Thank you for paying tribute to such a wonderful person. I will never forget.
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Personal Hero: Mister Rogers
By Ken ⋅ August 1, 2009 ⋅ Email This Post ⋅ Print This Post ⋅ Post a comment
Mister Rogers, the world's greatest neighbor.
Recently while sitting in a greasy spoon with the majority of my Brady Bunch family in attendance, I heard a line come from Melissa’s 10-year old daughter that made my jaw drop. Typically the conversations that we have as a group take twists and turns that none of us could possibly foresee. What could start as mere chatter about the rides at Kansas City’s lone amusement park could end up a few short minutes later being a run down of the best kid shows of all time. I absolutely adore these conversations. But as I mentioned earlier this particular roundtable had one line that made my eyes pop to the size of the plate that was keeping my scrambled eggs off the dirty table. The line?
“Who is Mister Rogers?”
Wait a minute…what?!?
I thought for a moment about how I would describe Fred Rogers to a child in this particular day and age. With a world full of SpongeBob and Elmo, I could only imagine how foreign – and, sadly, boring – the premise of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood would sound to them. And that’s a shame because Mister Rogers, to me, is a personal hero of mine that had a profound impact and influence on my life.
Fred McFeely Rogers was born on March 20, 1928 in Latrobe, Pennsylvania and spent a good portion of his early years as an only child. It was during the time he spent with his maternal grandfather Fred McFeely that he first developed an interest in music and puppetry. But it was an oft-repeated quote from his grandfather that made an impact on the young Rogers and formed the basis of a world that millions of children would grow up to know and love: “you’ve made this day a special day, just by being you.”
Upon graduating college, Rogers saw television for the first time. Intrigued by the emerging medium, he opted to go into the field rather than completing his seminary studies. “I went into television because I hated it so, and I thought there was some way of using this fabulous instrument to be of nurture to those who would watch and listen.”
And boy, did he ever find a way to do just that. Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood ran from 1968 through 2001 and had nearly 900 episodes (895 to be exact). Millions upon millions of children were treated to a daily life lesson handed out by the man who I personally consider to be the most qualified person to hand them out – sometimes even more qualified than the child’s own parents.
Fred Rogers was known the world over as one of the most friendly and sincerely genuine human beings you could ever hope to meet. Can you think a man you’ve ever encountered that was as open-minded, loving, caring, respected and perfect – yes, I’ll go as far as saying that the man was perfect – as Rogers? If you can, I’d love to hear you state your case.
A few points as to how universally loved and cherished Mister Rogers was by the world:
In 1990, thieves stole his car. Upon the discovery of whose car they had stolen (the story had been picked up by the news media and widely reported), the vehicle was returned where it had been stolen with a note that read “if we had known the car was yours, we wouldn’t have taken it.”
Koko, the Stanford-educated gorilla that could speak roughly 1,000 words in American Sign Language, was a huge fan of Rogers. During a trip out to film the gorilla for his show, Koko immediately wrapped her arms around Mister Rogers and began to untie his shoes for him – something she had seen him do at the beginning of each and every show.
Once while late for a meeting and unable to find a cab, Rogers and a colleague hopped onto a subway in New York. Shortly thereafter, he was recognized and the entire car began to sing his signature theme song “It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.”
One of his signature sweaters (each and every one of them hand-knitted by his mother) hangs in the Smithsonian.
And while he may be best known for his kind demeanor, Rogers was also a tenacious advocate for public television…almost single-handedly saving it when he testified before the U.S. Senate in 1969 (video to the right).
The backstory: In 1969 the budget for the Pubic Broadcasting System, which has brought us everything from Sesame Street to Frontline, was at risk of losing 50% of its budget due to then-President Richard Nixon’s decision to push more money into the expenditures surrounding Vietnam War.
Rogers, appearing before the United States Senate Subcommittee on Communications, managed to sway committee chairman Senator John Pastore’s decision in just a little over six minutes. Upon hearing Rogers speak, Pastore – who, at the time, was completely unfamiliar with Mister Rogers’ work – said that he had experienced “goose bumps” upon hearing Rogers’ compelling speech and granted PBS the full budget for that year.
After Rogers’ completed his appeal, the Senator stated “I think it’s wonderful, I think it’s wonderful” ending it with “Looks like you just earned the $20 million dollars.” Boom!
His acts of greatness and generosity did not go unrewarded. Honors for both his professional and personal work poured in throughout his lifetime. Rogers received 40 honorary degrees, two Peabody Awards, the Presidential Medal of Freedom (the nation’s highest civilian award), and four Emmy Awards including the Lifetime Achievement Award in 1997.
His speech, which lasted only a couple of minutes, managed to elicit beaming smiles and even tears from the hundreds of celebrities in attendance. He received a standing ovation heading up to the stage as well as when he made his exit. What amazed me the most is how, upon being presented this enormous award for his own achievements, Mister Rogers stays true to character and instead turns the moment into magic by having everyone think of the people in their own lives that helped them get to where they are today.
It’s easily one of the most touching and powerful acceptance speeches I’ve ever seen in my life.
Here’s the text of his speech from the 24th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards:
“So many people have helped me to come here to this night. Some of you are here, some are far away and some are even in Heaven. All of us have special ones who loved us into being. Would you just take, along with me, 10 seconds to think of the people who have helped you become who you are, those who cared about you and wanted what was best for you in life. 10 seconds, I’ll watch the time. [ten second pause] Whomever you’ve been thinking about, how pleased they must be to know the difference you feel they have made. You know they’re kind of people television does well to offer our world. Special thanks to my family, my friends, and my co-workers in Public Broadcasting and Family Communications, and to this Academy for encouraging me, allowing me, all these years to be your neighbor. May God be with you. Thank you very much.”
In August, 2001 the final new episode of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood aired. Less than two years later the world suffered a tremendous loss when Fred Rogers passed away after a short battle with stomach cancer. Tears flowed heavily around the globe as word of his death spread. An entire generation of adults that had grown up watching Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, myself included, felt a tremendous loss. Gone was the man who many had considered an extended member of their own family…a man who not only taught love and compassion but had also instilled millions of people of all ages with a sense of self-worth.
The U.S. House of Representatives and the U.S. Senate unanimously passed bills – Resolution 111 and Resolution 16 respectively – honoring his life while a grieving populace spoke out about the loss:
“In today’s world of fast-paced and high-tech entertainment for children, Mister Rogers was an oasis of patience, kindness and caring.” – Kenosha, Wisconisin
“Fred Rogers was an inspiration to me. I am 35 years old and I have cerebral palsy. Mister Rogers made me feel important and let me know that despite the cerebral palsy and my learning disability, I could make something of myself. The Office of Vocational Rehabilitation told my parents I could not go to college. I have a B.A. in communication and a master’s in rehabilitation sciences. Now, thanks to Mister Rogers, my parents and others, I work with individuals who have mental-retardation and mental-health issues. Thank you, Mister Rogers, for believing in children everywhere and for helping me believe in myself to become the person and the neighbor I am today.” – Portvue, Pennsylvania
“My parents were divorced when I was very young. At the time, I thought that if I had been a better son, maybe Dad would have stayed. That burden was carried for a long time. Mister Rogers taught me that I was special, too, and I realized eventually that it wasn’t my fault. He gave me a gift that money couldn’t buy, the gift of self-worth.” – Exeter, New Hampshire
“Understanding what a father should be is difficult when your own is an alcoholic. Mister Rogers taught me that men could be gentle and loving, that they weren’t all angry and abusive. I vividly remember watching his shows as a young child and thinking how kind he was, not scary. I’m thankful that Fred Rogers gave of himself to young children everywhere, and for his wonderful role-modeling, which helped me to see the world outside of my own home.” – Bend, Oregon
“As a little boy, I came from a bad home. The only person that made me feel good about myself was Mister Rogers. He was the only person who made me feel safe and comfortable.” – Hershey, Pennsylvania
As a child that grew up comfortably and surrounded by loving parents, Mister Rogers wasn’t as necessary to my own personal growth as he was to many others that I know. Upon hearing the news of his passing I did not shed a tear, although I did feel a loss. It wasn’t until years later when I chanced upon an article about him that made me truly remember the countless hours that I spent watching Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood…and made me realize just how truly incredible the man was and how his legacy is to this day. I have no problems whatsoever tearing up at reading about everything that he accomplished throughout his life.
I began this piece telling you about how shocked I was that my girlfriend’s 10-year old had never heard of Mister Rogers. Well, you can bet that here in the near future she’ll most certainly know who he is as I intend to introduce her to the man’s timeless message. I want her to know that even though she’s going through a rough time right now in her life that she’s special and that her mother and I love her…just the way she is.
Thanks, Mister Rogers, for giving the world a tremendous gift – the gift of you.
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